Teachers or other staff members may suspect that a child is being bullied but need assistance from parents in looking for the signs (olweus.org). Explain to parents that a child or youth who is bullied may:

• have torn, damaged, or missing pieces of clothing, books, or other belongings.
• have unexplained cuts, bruises, and scratches from fighting.
• have few, if any, friends with whom he or she spends time.
• seem afraid of going to school, walking to and from school, riding the school bus, or taking part in organized activities with peers (such as clubs or sports).
• take a long, "illogical" route when walking to or from school.
• lose interest in school work or suddenly begin to do poorly in school.
• appear sad, moody, teary, or depressed when he or she comes home.
• complain frequently of headaches, stomachaches, or other physical problems.
• have trouble sleeping or frequent bad dreams.
• experience a loss of appetite.
• appear anxious and suffer from low self-esteem.

Parents also need to know that there are specific actions to take whether their child is being bullied, is the bully or witnesses bullying. Review the following PDF documents, provided by the Hazelden Foundation, and distribute them to parents as a resource.

Tips for parents: What to do if your child is being bullied
Tips for parents: What to do if your child bullies others
Tips for parents: What to do if your child witnesses bullying

Regular meetings with parents on the topic of bullying prevention will also encourage cooperation among adults at school and adults at home to create a safe social environment for all students.